Julie’s story, why I created this site

I read my great grandma Katie’s research notes about my Virginia ancestors; things she wrote before I was born. Katie wrote about her mother Fannie Gray being born in Mecklenburg, VA and raised with her Dortch aunts and uncles in Kankakee, IL. (near Chicago) She also wrote that Fannie’s father was named Alginon Gray but always wrote his name “A.N. Gray”. That he had lots of siblings including Nannie, Charles, Tommy, and Frank Gray. She wrote that Nannie married Jimmy Kidd. She was trying to find the church Nannie Gray attended in LaCrosse because when Alginon died in a railroad bridge construction accident, his body was sent home to be buried at the church the family attended in LaCrosse. I wanted to find this too! I wanted to continue where my grandma Katie’s research had stopped.

My first visit to Mecklenburg, VA was in January 2003. Someone offered to show me churches my family might have attended. I found what grandma Katie was looking for! I saw Nannie Gray Kidd’s tombstone, at Rehoboth Methodist Church (Blackridge). I was just going to take a few pictures of tombstones I knew were Nannie’s family. But my new friend suggested I might want to consider the whole cemetery. He knew how 75% of the cemetery were related, and give him bit of time and he could figure out the rest. He told me the more he researches, the more he sees how connected everyone there is. (He’s so right!)

Going to visit a cemetery

That first visit, my mother and grandmother came with me. My mother still had young children at home and my grandma was living in Puerto Rico. So I took pictures and tried to write about my visits, to try and share my adventures with my mom and grandma. Other people started telling me they’d like to see my pictures too. I asked lots of questions on my visits, wanting to know where people lived a long time ago, and what it was like growing up in Mecklenburg. I kept being told the people who could best answer my questions weren’t living anymore. All their stories and knowledge sadly went with them, it wasn’t written down. I didn’t want any more stories lost! So, I started trying to record stories, and talk to as many people as I could find. I visit as I often as I can, looking for family cemeteries, pictures, older buildings (or houses), records and stories.

“My heart feels connected to Mecklenburg. When I visit, I feel like I’ve been welcomed back home.” -Julie

I launched this website in Jan 2020 to try to preserve and share my discoveries about Mecklenburg, and to learn from you! I grew up military and in cities. Mecklenburg is so different, and I love everything about my visits. Meeting new people, and hearing stories that give me a better feel for how my ancestors lived. When I visit I’m greeted with hugs and “Hi cousin!” No counting how far back, or if a “cousin removed”. We’re just simply family. I want to hear everyone’s stories and pictures, not just my family. Even if it’s just one picture with a name and estimated year taken. Even if it’s just one memory of someone, it’s more than I know, so I’d love to hear it. Lets preserve it, before that memory gets lost too. This site will remain ad-free, I receive no monetary benefit. Family history is my passion. I thought about stories I’ve heard the last few years during interviews, as well as stories and pictures I’m receiving right now. I decided to try to share memories by themes for the rest of the year, starting with WWI and WWII veteran pictures and stories during the month of May. This website’s purpose is to work with the community to preserve and share stories, pictures and history. Do you have any stories or pictures you’d like to share?

Contact: Julie Cabitto
PO Box 9143 Fredericksburg, VA 22403
mecklenburgvagen@gmail.com

5 thoughts on “Julie’s story, why I created this site

  1. Wayne Rainey

    Remember well you wanted to check out Kidd gravesites. I had been all over Mecklenburg County since 1999. At that particular cemetery remember telling you 75 percent of the graves were Kidd and remember you found one you weren’t expecting. Health issues have slowed .me down, but still occasionally go there.

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  2. roberta

    julie my husband family swanson then married Harper is from Louisburg n.c. and I too have been there even found there home on Fire Tower road it was an 100 acre farm and the grave stone were still there and part of the chimney it was as if I knew his people there is a quote from a ray turner our of Prince william co and I say it all the time history not shared is history lost to time I have been interested in genealogy since I was a young girl I enjoy others stories thnks for all you do to help save history …. Roberta

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  3. Pat Ritchie

    Hi, Julie,
    I did send you a picture and spent most of a day gathering what stories I could about Nicholas Hicks and wife Margaret. I don’t see them on the site yet. Is there some reason you would not put the pictures on the site? If so, I’d like to know what your criteria is. I never heard back from you and looked eagerly every day to see if the picture was on the site. The Hicks and Joyce families were significant citizens of Mecklenburg county.

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    1. Hi Pat,
      I didn’t post yet, because was visiting Mecklenburg. My only criteria is that you are interested in sharing. Things not posted yet, only meas I haven’t had a chance to post yet. I also apologize because I thought I did email back about this picture. Let me go check my drafts folder. Thank you for your interest in sharing! More from me very soon, -Julie

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